Friday, August 5, 2011

I'm an 18yr old mother and is seeking for advice from people help?

hi i am a 18yr old mother i had my son 6months ago, i am a good mother i had never left my son for more then a sec. i always take him to his doctors appointments and is doing everything right but my family aka cousin is threing me with defacs and saying things like your a bad mother because you make your sister watch your kid all day and you never do. that is not true i watch him everyday the only time i don't watch him is when i am at work or is out paying some bills of mine my mother is lying to my aunt and is saying thing like omg did you know that lucy let her kid sit there and crys for hour the only reason why he crys is because is because he is teething and has his first tooth coming in thats all i feed him when he needs to and change when he needs to i also gave him my attintion when he wants it everyone beside my family even people i don't even know says i'm a really good mother and that i'm really caring but it seem like my family is just wanting to take my kid away from me what should i do my cousin kidnap my son once and didn't even let me know antill i found out myself i didn't even report her because she was family and that i didn't want to start any drama so i just said it was okay but next time let me know and she tell me to go f**k myself i just can't stand the drama and how they are taking over and saying i'm making them taking care of him that is just b.s. what should i do? my son is everything to me and if i lose him i will lose my world i was thinking about a not letting them come near jayden but if i do they will just say things like well when he gets older we will just say that you made him stop seeing us but they are hurting me and is stressing me out to the point where i cry on my pillow at night i just also had a miscarrage and i had just had on my uterus and just found out i can't have anymore kids which kills me so i'm on bed rest till i'm better and yet they said that i still i'm a bad mother because i having my husband watch our son because i can't at the momment and my cousin said that she is happy that had a miscarrage i wanted to hit her in the face for that i just hate my mom's side of the family so please help look at the positive part of live please

Who should i be mad at?

Okay so my mom and dad hate eachother and its pretty much hell right now at my house every night my mom is oit hangong out with whoever and i didnt care until my dad told me shes been cheatimg on him with this guy named josh who i have never even seen in my life my dad caught her taking dirty pics of herself in their bathroom and he tackled her to get the phone he didnt hirt her then he said he hated her and left then i asked my mom what he ever did to her that was so bad and she said he cheated on her like way brlefore i wa born ( im fifteen years old) and she said that hes been texting this girl for a year the both of them will never let me see their phones and i do know why i have talked to them and they really could give a **** about what i say i have been gone weeks and they dont even care but every night i am home my dad gets drunk and drives around ( beleive me i have yelled and cryed at him to stop but he wont) and while hes drunk he crys and tells me that he still loves my mom and every noght i dont see my mom coming home till late and shes mad at my dad for no reason and my dad used to pop pills and drink but he doesnt anymore so who should i be more mad at?

Can I get full custody of my son?

My sons father is not involved in his life, he might see him once a month iff that. he gave me 80 dollars the beginning of may but he doesnt usually help out he doesnt buy him diapers or anything. I lost my job and he didnt even offer to help out. My son calls another guy dad because his dad is not around, My son does this on his own I did not force him to call him dad. my son is 14 months and he is afraid of is real father he crys and he does not know him. I try to get him to be involved but hes always to busy. His own mother said I should take him for child support. Could I get full custody. If something happens to me his father is not stable enough to take care of him what do you think? My son is with me all the time his father never asks about him

My indoor cat wants to be an outdoor cat?

Buy a cat lead and harness and walk him outside. Let him go where he wants though. This should mean he doesn't have such a need to go outside but if it had the wrong effect he might want to go out all the time. It helped for me but every cats different!!!

I need some help :(??????!!!!!!!?

I have recently found what I want to be when I grow up. This would be an actress. I love performing and entertaining people. I LOVE all eyes on me. It's my thing, you know? I want to get started now, but know nothing about this industry. All I know is that it's tough. But im not one to give up :) I need to know...EVERYTHING. Where to start who to talk to where to go! I live in Indiana so that should help you a little. PLEASE! Any information will be super helpful.

How do you teach a puppy to sleep on his own?

We put him in his basket in his room downstairs and shut the door and then we go upstairs to our beds. He whimpers and crys for a while and then settles down. He will sometimes wake up again in the night and start crying again. The breeder gave us a 'puppy pack' with instructions when we brought him which said to let him cry and just leave him to sleep on his own. Is this the right thing to do, or not? How would you suggest doing it?

Marijuana laws in Indiana?

Why is it that in one state (Indiana) you can still go to jail for less than nothing .5grams lol... The next state over Ohio you can have over 100 grams and only if even get a ticket. One state up Michigan is decriminalized. you can go to a compassion club and get it legally like California. I mean I know its up to the states but why does mine have to be the hardest? Look around Indiana. It just seems like nobody cares. I'm just saying your freedom is not something you can take for granted. People that live good lives that are important to others in their community should not be in jail for being connected to the earth. It doesn't matter who you are. Its sad to see a plant like this not being recognized for what it is. Its heals you. Whatever is wrong with you, for whatever reason you need it, will go there and heal it if you know that it will. They know this, and so should you. Can you do anything to get better people in office here in Indiana? If so get back with me here so I can do the same. I plan on moving on but i would love to see some improvements here before I go. I would like to be apart of it. Norml Indiana is going nowhere from what I can tell. So maybe a new website is in order any Ideas? Maybe advertise this new website on weedmaps or hightimes or something. What do you think? You know how to build a website? down for alittle charity work? Lets do something for Indiana, They are pretty cold out here.