Am i a bad boyfriend or is my girlfriend just really annoying...?

Ok. Your girlfriend does not love you.. You have to understand. She is needy and obsessive. Shes not just acting it. She is it. She is threatening you with cutting herself because she is not ok with herself.. It has nothing to do with you. She needs to fix herself befor she can start draging you into it. Dont let it be toxic. It is ruining her as you can see, and it must be wearing you down. She needs to see someone and you need to be cruel to be kind. If you honestly havent given her a reason to not trust you, if you havent helped this control thing grow within her, then its not your fault. If a man doesnt treat a woman right, and then turns it on them, like "If you didnt look, you wouldnt find!" that sort of thing... Then they are in the wrong and the woman needs to leave the toxic behind and move on. But in your case, you need to help her help herself. She needs to get help. When does a person threaten someone they love? Truley, they dont. Id run from someone I loved If i was making there life worse and not better