Should I move to Tennessee or Ohio or stay in Michigan?

Lots of bad memories here, and everyone that has moved here from Tennessee says it's so nice and peaceful. My friend Alysha moved there and says it's so nice and that she probably never move back. She's a family friend too, so it's tempting to see her. I've heard Ohio has a low cost of living and my friends say it's okay in general. I don't really like the state, I like it a hell of a lot more than Florida, but some people really like it. Or shall I stay here in Michigan? I love it here, but there are so many bad memories here and they haunt me. I have also heard that Indiana is VERY nice. Low cost of living, same with Ohio and Tennessee, and beautiful shoreline. What should I do?