Sunday, August 7, 2011

Relationship advice help? ?

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 1/2 years, we are both near our mid 20s right now. Two weeks ago we broke up over a small fight. He has a hard time dealing with emotional things and doesn't open up, so instead of talking things out to fix things, he keeps to himself. This is especially hard when all you're trying to do is get answers and make up. We saw eachother a few times since the break up and he really seemed to miss me. It's obvious I miss him. I want him back so bad and have tried everything from ignoring him and pretending I moved on, to being truthful and asking for him back. Today I couldn't take it anymore and finally pleaded for him to come back to me which I know makes me look bad and is a big mistake. He basically didn't like that I had to beg and said he loves me and cares about me but he knows I wouldn't be happy in the future with him and doesn't think we should get back together. He feels my wants and needs cannot be fulfilled by him. I want you to know that he is wrong and yes I've asked for a lot in the past, but after these past two weeks, there's nothing I'd want more than him. He doesn't have to do anything for me, him being there is enough because I've missed him soooo much! We were on the phone for 1 1/2 hours and finally when I was getting off, I said I wanna c u tomorrow and before I go sleep can u tell me if there is a glint of hope for us, meaning did he change his mind. To my surprise he did because he saw how bad I am hurt by the thought of not having him by my side in the future. Can you please give me advice as to what I should do/say/how I should act tomorrow when I see him? What do u think about this whole situation as well? Gimme some relationship tips..

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